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“You’re very special!”

Those were the last words I whispered to my daughter as I gave her a squeeze and prepared to send her off to bed. When her body stiffened noticeably and she became quiet, I wondered if perhaps those words had made her feel uncomfortable.

Early the next morning, she stood near me and in her soft voice said, “Mama? You know last night when you told me I was special? I liked that. No one has ever told me I am special before.”

That was a bittersweet moment for me.

On one hand, I was grateful that she had felt comfortable enough to share her feelings with me. On the other hand, I felt pain for it having taken me so long to tell her the words she so longed to hear.

“How could I have NEVER told her she is special?” I thought to myself.

I’ve told her she is fun and creative,

helpful and a blessing in our home,

a good friend and a daughter of God.

I tell her multiple time a day how much I love her, but I’ve never told her that she is special.

This experience made me stop and wonder, “What are the particular words that my friends and loved ones are longing to hear?”

My email inbox contains a special folder that with a collection of kind words that have been sent my way over the years, and hidden in my room is a collection of extra special notes, dating back to 1987, that have been received in the mail. Anything from personal compliments, offers to help during a difficult time, expressions of gratitude, and words of encouragement. I read through them when I’m feeling “low”, and the words I read fill me to overflowing. The words, words from many of YOU, are like a gift that keeps on giving. Thank you.

I hope to be inspired to know, at least occasionally, which words my friends, family, and even strangers, are longing to hear.

And I hope to have the courage to say them.

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